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{Friday, March 19, 2010 , 11:33 AM} how much can you expect from a friend that u have just known? actually we can't expect much, isn't it? we all don't really understand each other very well in the first place. and everyone already had their own close friends since they were young. not that people don't treat ourselves like their true friends. sometimes is because there are different beliefs, characters, interests and values among us. is fate that we were brought together. however, due to many factors, people just can't be too close. as a human being, i really feel that we are really weird. when come to certain things that we need to be very truthful, we tend to avoid. we always afraid to face the reality, afraid to listen to the negative comments. when come to be honest to some things like relationship or friendship. we will only gossip behind the person instead of telling them face to face. why? even when a person, he/she hope to be your true friend. we will look into their character and personality first, not just only appearance. after that then we will consider whether this person deserve to be ur friend. people may say where got such thing.. but come on, everyone is being realistic. especially staying in singapore. you ask urself, do u really treat the people around u as ur true friends? you say people don't contact you. but do u really treat the person as your friend? did u contact them? frienddship is so fragile. easily come, and easily go. who will really make the effort to keep their friends? you and i think the same. forever there will be no changes. no one speaks all this. only thing is to post on the blog. heart to heart converstion? err... everyone finds it weird. think carefully.. who is ur true friends.. true friendship comes when the silence between two people is still comfortable. have u ever experienced this? friends are already hard to find, true friends are even harder. |
